When life doesnt go as planned

I thought i had my whole life figured out before i was 16.  I was going to go on a mission at 21, be married by 25 and be done having all my children by 35.  Instead, i got no mission, because of health concerns.   I was married at 28, diagnosed with infertility and endometriosis at 29 and divorced at 36.  Go figure.

Im a planner.  Its what i do.  I have a plan for almost everything.  It took me a long time to come to terms with life not turning out the way i planned.  Someone once told me, we dont plan these things, sometimes this is just the way life turns out. Maybe thats true.  Maybe its teaching me to learn to be adaptable. 

I love the movie PS I love you where Gerry teaches Holly from beyond the grave, to live again and that things always have a way of working out.  He teaches her that its ok not to have a plan, and that its ok to just go with the flow.  Perhaps thats something i need to learn to do. Adapt.

Or

Let Go Let Flow ..........